RE: Hiatus

I’m still going to be on hiatus for a bit longer.
I’ve messaged our other admin Rebecca to see if she can attend to the ask box, hopefully she will

Thanks for waiting everyone

Thursday Apr 17 @ 11:19am

Hi everyone,
I need to take a hiatus from here for a little while.
I’m sorry if asks go unanswered or songs go unsubmitted.
I’m not in any state to be able to answer your questions and I don’t feel so qualified anymore to do them

- Desi

Wednesday Mar 26 @ 11:57am

Anonymous asked: I need some advice if you have the time. I have been in a LDR for about four months now and I just got back yesterday from seeing him for the first time and spending a week with him. It was the most wonderful week of my life and it made me realize how much I love him and want to be with him. The issue is that we can't move to be with each other. Now that I know what it's like to be with him, I don't know how to live without him and I don't know what to do. Do you have any advice on how to cope?

I’m seriously the worst person to be answering this because I literally do not know how to cope. I struggled for months after Ben left the first time and now that I’ve left him it’s been even worse. I really dont know how to help out cause I cant even help myself :(

I honestly think the only thing that could make this all better is time
Skype as much as you can
- Desi

Monday Mar 24 @ 06:25pm

"I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years and haven’t seen him for three. My mom has disliked him for a long time but she just said yes to him coming to my prom we were planning for his but she said no so now we have a week to raise $500 we need help!

Help a couple out guys!

Sunday Mar 23 @ 11:45am

savvyjane asked: Come Home Yesterday by Sam Hart! <3

Ouch, my heart!
Thanks for this <3

Saturday Mar 22 @ 09:05pm

If anyone here has a gofundme page, send it in and i’ll post it!

I’d love to help out any one in the ldr community spread the word on their page! (and by next pay day i could probably donate some as well)

This is my page here if anyone would like to share

I wish I was able to save for all of this but because i’m over 18 my work don’t give me many shifts (3 hours a week if i’m lucky.) That’s not even close enough to pay for my college (TAFE fees for any Australians)
Keep on sending in your asks and songs and i’ll try to get to them
I usually don’t post personal things on here but I felt like today I should.
I really love this blog but i’m finding it hard to always answer and submit songs in everyday. I struggle with chronic anxiety and severe depression. Being in a long distance relationship is just.. hard. The end result should be great but as we all know the middle can be quite terrible.

Thanks for all the support with this blog, the amount of followers have grown tremendously and its really lovely to see that so many people are in the same situation. Well, it’s not really lovely at all that we’re in LDRS but its nice to know there’s people out there who can all relate.
- Desi

Saturday Mar 22 @ 08:57pm

Come Home Yesterday - Sam Hart

Submitted by savvyjane

Saturday Mar 22 @ 08:46pm

Anonymous asked: So i don't have a tumblr account but I Google's ldr songs cause I felt like Being in a bad mood. My name is Savannah. My nd Sam and I have been dating for 11 months on April 5. His dating is 4 days after. And I would really like to get him something but he won't give me his stupid address. Next to that he's talked to me once the past two weeks. And it was a really big fight. Anyway. A lot of my friends say we should break up but I can't.. thoughts? And good song-never met you by Tom Law 2∞&↑

That’s really tough and I think the best possible thing for you to do if you haven’t already is so send him a nice long message about how you feel and take it from there. If he’s still ignoring you after that, perhaps its just best to give him some space and hopefully he’ll message you back. If you’ve sent him messages and he isn’t responding its probably best not to keep messaging. I hope things work out!

Saturday Mar 22 @ 08:44pm

Anonymous asked: hey. i met my guy online and weve been together 3 years now. recently due to work and studies we took a break. hes coming to meet me the first time ever this may. i rele wanna get back with him. any cute ways i could ask him?

Maybe write him a letter detailing how you feel about him and at the end of the letter ask if he would like to get back together :)

Saturday Mar 22 @ 08:41pm

Anonymous asked: could you name me some really amazing spanish songs?

I don’t listen to Spanish music, sorry :(
It’s only the songs that people send in so i can’t really reccomend any

Thursday Mar 20 @ 04:12am

Anonymous asked: I've just stumbled upon your page and I'm in live with it!!!!!! I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for 5 years, and seeing things likes this warms my heart. I noticed two songs that would fit perfectly here, that just so happen to be songs dedicated from my relationship. I Knew This Would Be Love by Imaginary Friend and Solamente Tu by Pablo Alboran. (:

Awww! I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years too <3 
I’m really loving ‘I knew this would be love’
Thanks for sending in!
- Desi

Monday Mar 17 @ 06:17pm

I knew this would be love - Imaginary Friend

Submitted by anon

Monday Mar 17 @ 06:16pm

Anonymous asked: I'm in a LDR for two months but we're definitely in love and everything is perefctly perfect.. I'm 16 he's 19.. He's been literally ignoring me for the past 2 and a half weeks( more or less) and I've been losing my mind and it doesn't seem like he cares.. I've literally begged him to talk to me and I've become annoying sometimes but it's for the good I swear.. Today, he sends me a text just simply saying "I don't think you're ready for a relationship, it just hit me" idk what to do or feel.

I assume you texted him back but the best thing for you to do right now is step up and ask him to have a mature conversation about this to sort out why he feels that way. Tell him that it’s important that the both of you talk about your relationship. If he continues to ignore you and won’t actually talk to you about this. I think you should tell him goodbye and that he has wasted your time. You shouldn’t have to beg someone to talk to you, because if there’s something wrong, it needs to be spoken about and hopefully fixed. There’s no point trying to force someone to talk to you when they don’t want too. Honestly, it seems like he’s not ready for a relationship because in relationships you dont ignore the other person when there’s a problem and you talk about it rather than texting a short message rather than explaning how he feels.

You deserve better!

- Desi

Monday Mar 17 @ 06:14pm

Anonymous asked: May I by Trading Yesterday. Didn't see it on the list and thought I'd share :)


Saturday Mar 15 @ 05:54pm

Trading Yesterday - May I
Submitted by anon

Saturday Mar 15 @ 05:54pm

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