Anonymous asked: So Ive been with my boyfriend 7 months and have lived eith eachother practically the entire time. He recently moved to Queensland for a job and I honestly don't know how I am going to deal with it. It's only been 3 days and I find myself pacing back and forth.
If you live in Australia, is it possible to plan a visit for some time soon?
You can always look out for specials with jetstar/virgin/tiger airways and hope for the best!
Just give it some time to adjust and eventually you will stop pacing around. Find something to do with your time or just focus a lot harder on whatever it is that you do (working, studying, etc.)
Anonymous asked: Hi okay so I'm kinda new to this whole long distance thing and I don't know how to cope with it all. I like this guy but he lives in another country and is 4000 miles away. I'll see him again this summer but after that I don't know when I'll see him again. And I really really like him. And I miss him like crazy. How do I deal with all of it? I really don't like crying myself to sleep every night…
For now the best thing I could possibly say is that in time it gets better, because it does. Just look forward to Summer and take it from there. Keep yourself busy and don’t worry about when you’ll see him next after you see him. You have plenty of time! :)
Anonymous asked: to the anon who has a ldr with a boy from another country, yes it's really difficult to give him a surprise gift. just last week i shipped my Christmas gift to my boyfriend who's from another country and it all cost me $160 :( but it will be worth it you know! especially if he didn't expect that he'll be receiving a present from you. :) if you don't have any budget for your boyfriend you could try giving him a greeting card through 123greetings it's free! :D
Anonymous asked: I have a ldr with a boy in a another country. I want to do something for the holidays for him but I'm not sure what and I can't just send something to him since its overseas! Could you give me some ideas please!
I know you said you can’t send anything, but if you have a couple of dollars then you could write him a letter and/or a christmas card. Last year I actually bought something from ebay (a mug from a video game that my boyfriend loves) and got that shipped straight to him. It sorta works out cheaper rather than buying something and then sending it from the post office. How about books? If he has a particular interest you could go on bookdepository and order something from there. The books are super cheap and amazingly good quality with free shipping which should take 1-2 weeks to arrive. So I guess that’s kinda cutting it for time but it’s an idea for sure.
All of these ideas have money attached to them so if you can’t afford to spend money, you could make a video for him?
I hope some of this can help!
Since it’s hit December, one of the questions that always goes around is ‘What should I get my SO for Christmas???’
If they’re far away and you can’t send packages for whatever reason but you still want to give them something, make an audio book! Make a recording of yourself reading your/their/all y’alls favorite book and email it to them.
It’s a thoughtful gift that takes a surprising amount of time to do, and they can listen to your voice and a good story at the same time.
Peach — The Front Bottoms
Submitted by anon
When I’m Gone — A Rocket to the Moon
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Anonymous asked: To the anon who asked about going out with a boy who lives on the other side of the country: I'm exactly like you! I live on the east coast whereas my boyfriend lives on the west. We've been dating for almost five years and are going to close the gap early next year! As long as you're dedicated, you can make it work. Trust me. :)
for the last anon
Anonymous asked: Hi! I've met an amazing guy, that lives on the other side of the country (I'm Australian, in the east coast, while he's on the west). He wants to start a relationship but I have never done something like that before. My last relationship included us living together for two years, so it would be hard to not have the same thing. BUT at the same time, I've never felt this way before. It's so hard. I'm 19 and he is 21.
Well, I say go for it! If you like him then give it a shot. Or maybe if you want you can plan to meet first and then take it from there.
Good luck :)
Tiger airways! doit!
Real good day!
Anonymous asked: Hello! So I'm currently in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend left for Canada 2 months ago and still not sure when he'll come back to visit. It's the first time in our relationship to be in LDR. Since it's almost Christmas, could you add "Christmases when you were mine" by Taylor Swift to your playlist? Thanks a lot! Love you blog by the way. :) - MJ from Philippines
I’m tearing up listening to this. Thanks.
Happy holidays :)
Christmases When You Were Mine — Taylor Swift
Submitted by anon
Pieces — Red
Submitted by cyanly
Miss You Love — Maria Mena
Submitted by leannejadee
Falling in Love — McFly
Submitted by anon